Looking Back-Re’eh
One of the mitzvos in this week’s parshah provides some insight into the proper (and improper) way to relate to the most unfortunate of circumstances. The passuk states: לֹא תִתְגֹּדְדוּ וְלֹא־תָשִֹימוּ קָרְחָה בֵּין עֵינֵיכֶם לָמֵת – “Do not lacerate yourselves, nor shall you set a bald spot (in your hair in the area) between your eyes on (the occasion of) death” (Devarim 14:1). This was the practice of the gentiles; upon losing a loved one, [...]